Friday, August 21, 2009

White Lie, is it important?



It is quite weird isn’t it? “White Lie is an important” why we need to tell a Lie? What is the consequence if we are telling a Lie? There will be hundreds of questions similar with above statement. When you are trying to tell a Lie, you can’t deny that our eyes will be blink (according the expert of Human psychology) our “eyes can talk” and people who knows that your eyes blink when you tell something, they will be no longer to trust you! But for some reasons, Lie could be a very strong weapon for you to help someone who suffering from their problems.

For instance: You want your friend and other of your friend (lets give a name like Mr. X and Mrs. Y), getting closer again after several weeks they were angry or become enemy each other, by telling a lie that the Mr. X still want to be a friend with Mrs. Y, or Mrs. Y still want you, because you are so kind even your character quite different, or trying to say to both of them that they were matching in every condition, I think it is not wrong. I believe when you do this to your friend who has a problem it will make them back again. This is we call “White Lie”.
How to create “White Lie” to help our friends, our neighbor , or other people who needs a help to make them “Back” to their real love, society and their life? In this tips and tips I give you a fresh idea based on my research how you do “white Lie” with minor mistake and you don’t have to worry about the bad consequence as long as you do this in sincere.

• Getting to know with the problem
By knowing what exactly happen between them (the case), you will easy to make a good and wise conclusion what are you trying to do or to tell the “white lie”.

• Remember, when you do investigation, trying not to involve your heart and your mind to their emotion, otherwise it will make you a third party in their problem. Minimize, telling a dramatic “White lie”. Meaning, you should create the “white lie” base on the real problem that they had.

• Convince to them, that you are really a best friend that can give a better solution, remember well the word “friend need friend indeed”. You totally not to support one of them or you are trying to beat one of them from their problem, and please never cross in your mind that you will get “benefit” after you are trying to help them.


I believe, when you do “white lie” you can help millions of people in this beautiful world, and bring them into peace. Keep on your mind that the good things it will be everlasting and the bad things will be blasting. Good Luck!

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