Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Be a Good Neighbor for Our Children.


In a big city, with various character of people and it seems they don’t care each other or merely they are busy with their own business that make them really less to care their neighbor. They just involved in their own business without care to their atmosphere surround.
Talking about neighbor, you probably would not have given much thought to your neighbors and how they can affect your family life. Many people believe that good neighbors can help us prevent crimes, remind us in danger things and make the neighborhood safer for our children to live in.
But sometimes, we put our suspicious to our neighbor without do investigation first; sometimes we are in a hurry to make a conclusion to our neighbor. But it is not wrong if you put your suspicious to your neighbor but at least please try to believe them, you may judge them after 2 weeks or a month when they are trying to get to know.
Be a good neighbor is related to our children, if we were as parents both work, living next door to a neighbor who cal help out occasionally is a big bonus. Good neighbors go beyond exchanging nods and greetings when they meet. Interestingly, a study conducted in Chicago found that some adolescents were less likely to engage in sexual activities if they lived in neighborhoods where the adults were monitoring them closely.

In close-knit neighborhoods, children will get the chance to see other adults who reinforce the same norms and values as their parents. With this extra bit of assistance from neighbors, parents need not watch their children like a hawk around the clock because they are many eyes out there. Children tend to engage in healthy and positive activities if they grow up in a close-knit community. Friendly and concerned neighbors can help us raise good children.

Recently busy and stressed-out parents need all the help they can get from their existing network. Neighbors whom you trust can provide the help needed when friends and relatives live apart. For a young mother with limited resources, a helpful neighbor can make sure that her children are not left unsupervised in an empty house. Children need to live among people who care about them.
They feel more secure when they can turn to someone for help when mom and dad are not around. It also turns out that having happy neighbors can make us happy, too and our children they can learn how to trust someone and how to build the social link among other people all over the world and they can learn how to living in a harmony.

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