Monday, July 13, 2009

TIP FOR CONQUER YOUR LONELINESS

TIP FOR CONQUER YOUR LONELINESS.

Recently, many people they are easy to feel loneliness, and they don’t know how to do and how to avoid their loneliness. Some riches people willing to pay thousand dollars to buy the happiness, they spent a lot of money just for something that they will feel enjoy and will make them laugh and free for short time and after that they will get nothing instead tired and bore.

Frankly speaking, those people who feel loneliness because of some factors such as:

· Feel that he/she is the only one can take care of everything, instead she/he can/t do nothing without some else.

· A person who likes bossy and never try to look out trough their window, that there down the street people will going to laugh, play with their friend or even they gathered together for some activities.

· Never do appreciation to other people and it seems like to ignore.

· When do appreciation to other people, it look likes just for pretend never sincere coming from the bottom of their heart.

· Feel that their social status highest than other.

· Uncertainties goals in their lives.

· Routine and scheduled activities make them feel isolated from their own wife, husband, children, family or even their society.

Those factors above can cause of people easily to feel loneliness and further it will make them totally feel lonely and the worst thing they will commit for suicide, of course we are not going to let this happen. Let me share idea trough my tips and tips how to conquer your loneliness by doing like:

1. “Placing your own character to their character”, meaning, if you like being appreciate by some one, so you have to do first by doing appreciate to some one.

2. Do everything in sincere and never look for reward from what you have done or you have given. Trust me, for those people that you have helped, one day they will come and help you and bring you out from your problem, and when they come where you in trouble you will never ever fell loneliness again.

3. Well manage your schedule, and make specific day (on the weekend) perhaps, a time for your wife, your husband, your children, family, staff that you have in your office , your neighbor or even your society. You know why, from those people we can easily get happiness and cheerful by share with them, just take 2 or 5 minutes talk with them, listen what they want to talk to you, your children maybe they need not only money, they need an affection, a father, a mother for their can share their problem or just share perhaps. Money and money will not make people happy for the last. Do you think you can buy all of them, all of their needs, all of they laugh or they happiness? I don’t think so. So open you heart widely, spread your arm and huge them, kiss them and give them your heart and your care. I believe you will get something that you never ever feel and think before, and you will conquer your loneliness forever and ever.

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